A getaway designed to help you hit pause on the chaos, reconnect with your partner, and remember why you said “yes” in the first place.

October 10 - 12, 2025 in Catskills, New York

The Vow Writing Weekend

Your wedding is about so much more than timelines & table settings.

And yet, as the big day gets closer, it’s easy to get swept up in the planning whirlwind.

Between decision fatigue, menu changes, and your cousin still complaining about her bridesmaid dress…

…you are so over it.

You deserve to feel excited…not exhausted.

Enter The Vow Writing Weekend Retreat

This isn’t just a writing workshop.

It’s an experience for growth-minded, emotionally intentional couples who are feeling overwhelmed by the wedding planning process.

It’s for couples who crave presence over perfection, depth over performance, and authenticity over obligation.

Designed as a break from checklists and unsolicited opinions, this immersive weekend offers space to slow down, have fun, and remember why you said yes in the first place.

Over the weekend, couples will:

  • Complete a heartfelt draft of their vows with expert support
  • Gain confidence in how to deliver their vows with emotional impact
  • Reconnect through guided prompts, shared experiences, and intentional quality time
  • Leave with clarity, alignment, and renewed intimacy

Welcome to Wylder Windham

Tucked in the heart of the Great Northern Catskills, Wylder Windham is surrounded by mountain views and the gentle flow of the Batavia Kill River, making it the perfect serene escape and inspired setting for a weekend devoted to crafting your vows and reconnecting as a couple.

Here, fresh air and quiet mornings set the tone for deep reflection, while the expansive 20-acre property offers endless ways to unwind when your pen takes a pause.

Enjoy the wood-fired saunas, take a spin on an electric bike, try your hand at lawn games, or gather by the firepit under a blanket of stars.

More than just a venue, Wylder Windham is the backdrop that makes every moment of your vow-writing journey feel intentional, relaxed, and unforgettable.

This is not a “woo woo” retreat.

No vision boards. No crystals. No mantras.

Think scenic hikes, meaningful writing sessions, incredible food, and the kind of unfiltered time together that feels like falling in love again...without phones, social media, or your future MIL's commentary.

The Experience

The retreat is designed for couples to have quality time together, and so meals and activities will not be conducted as a group.

Friday, October 10

  • 3:00 PM – Arrival & check-in 
  • 3:30 PM – 4:30 PM – Scenic hike
  • 4:30 PM – 6:00 PM – leisure time
  • 6:00 PM – 7:00 PM – Welcome Cocktail Hour 
  • 7:00 PM – Romantic dinner date

Saturday, October 11

  • 7:00 AM – 8:00 AM – Sunrise Yoga
  • 8:15 AM – 9:15 AM – Breakfast 
  • 9:30 AM – 11:00 AM – Guided Vow Writing Session 
  • 11:00 AM – 1:00 PM – Leisure time +  1x1 Vow sessions
  • 1:00 PM – 2:00 PM – Lunch 
  • 2:00 PM – 3:30 PM – Date activity 
  • 3:30 PM – 8:00 PM – Leisure time + 1x1 Vow sessions
  • 8:00 PM – Romantic dinner date

Sunday, October 12 

  • 8:00 AM – 9:30 AM – Farewell Breakfast 
  • 9:30 AM – 11:00 AM – leisure time
  • 11:00 AM – Check-out and departures

Hi, I’m Katelyn.

As a professional wedding vow and speech writer with a B.A. in journalism, I‘ve been helping couples since 2017 capture the heart of their love stories.

My background in storytelling and my natural curiosity mean I know the right questions to ask so the emotions you feel can be transformed into words that authentically represent you.

I know what it’s like to struggle to express something deeply personal.

My journey began when I helped my dad rewrite the eulogy for my grandfather. He knew what he felt, but he had no idea how to write it.

I worked with him to uncover the stories, details, and sentiment that made his tribute feel truly him.

That moment showed me the power of listening deeply and translating raw emotion into unforgettable words.

That’s exactly what I’ll help you accomplish during this retreat.

Over the weekend, I’ll guide you through prompts, one-on-one sessions, and scenic moments of reflection so your vows capture your unique love story.

You’ll leave not only with your vows complete…but also with the confidence to deliver them.

Meet your vow writer and retreat host

Inside the Vow Writing Retreat

Why I Created It and What You’ll Experience

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Investment: $4,999 per couple