If you suffer from anxiety, you know how real it is. It can feel debilitating and sometimes handicap you from doing the things you really want. For many brides I work with, the idea of writing her vows and publicly sharing them during the wedding ceremony is a surefire way for her anxiety to spike and send her into full blown panic attack.
So why do brides put themselves through this stress? Like you, they want the uniqueness of writing custom written vows—despite how scary it can feel.
When I asked a bride I recently worked with, “What do you wish for your future husband,” her response made me giggle. However, I think most grooms-to-be would empathize with her fiancé.
“Well, I know what he’d say,” she began. “He’d want his life back from all this nonstop wedding talk and planning!”
Wedding planning can be stressful and can cause strain on relationships. Which is ironic considering the entire reason you’re planning a wedding is because of your relationship. So how do you check off everything from your wedding to-do list while still showing some love to your relationship?
As a professional wedding vow writer, brides and grooms come to me for help most often because they have no idea how to begin writing their own wedding vows. I totally get it. You’ve finally found the love of your life and you’re about to make this huge commitment. Which words could possibly be capable of capturing your emotions and honoring this milestone of entering into marriage?
Love my vows Katelyn!!!! It’s such a relief to have this out of the way so I can focus on all the rest of the stuff I need to do!
You were my very favorite part of the process!! Your experience and confidence in the process took all the stress out of writing my vows!
— Natalie, Florida
I thought the process was outstanding. You did a great job communicating, and I thought the turnaround time for editing was perfect. I also thought the video interview was great in that it was personal and meaningful!
— Jordan
I am a storyteller, not a speechwriter. I was incredibly intimidated about writing one.
So thankful to find Katelyn to get my thoughts all in order. Very proud of how the speech came out. Looking forward to giving it!
— Jennifer Whitley, Texas
I had such a wonderful experience working with Katelyn. She truly helped mold perfect vows that I can’t wait to tell my fiancé on our wedding day!
Katelyn was friendly, sweet, and super easy to work with. I will definitely be calling her up if I have to give another speech in the near future.
— Jordanne, California
Katelyn was professional, easy to talk to, and made the interviewing process fun. She came well prepared with unexpected and thought-provoking questions to get a better understanding of our love story and who we are as a couple.
She was a pleasure to work with and made the vow writing process enjoyable.
— Kimi Kinsey, South Carolina
Working with Katelyn on my maid of honor toast was an incredible experience. She really took the time to understand my relationship with my best friend and used my responses to craft a toast that put my thoughts and feelings into words in a way that I never would have been able to do on my own.
Before working with Katelyn, I was nervous and stressed about giving (and writing) such a big, important speech. But now I’m so relieved that it’s done, and I honestly can’t wait to stand up and tell everyone exactly what my best friend means to me.
— Allyssa, New Jersey
I didn’t actually know this service existed until I discovered Katelyn! It was such a fun experience to video chat with her about my best friend who is getting married this summer.
I don’t have to stress about writing this a few weeks before my best friend’s wedding. Thank you so much and I can’t wait to read it at my best friend’s wedding!
— Gabby
