If you already have a fitness coach, business coach, or life coach, you understand the benefits of how a coach in a specialized field can elevate your game to the next level.
When it comes to your wedding, a vow coach will do exactly that for you by providing you with support and services for writing your wedding vows.
Engaged? Here are eight reasons why you need a vow coach.
But first, what is a wedding vow coach?
A vow coach is someone who will guide you through the vow writing process. Some will simply support you and offer advice while you take the lead. Others will take ownership of the custom vow writing and then turn to you for final feedback and approval.
At Wedding Words, we offer both vow editing and vow writing services so that you can choose how much or little you want to be involved in the writing process.
Through either direction, your vows will be personalized and unique to your love story.
Reason #1: You Shouldn’t Write in a Vacum
Writers don’t write alone, despite it being a rather solitary act. Great writing is collaborative. And one of the biggest benefits of working on your vows with someone is you get to have a soundboard on what’s working and what isn’t.
As a vow coach, I’ve helped my clients to dial in the message of their vows, giving it more clarity so they have the greatest level of impact.
I’ve also helped clients to determine what sort of ideas are better suited for public wedding vows versus a private wedding day letter or private wedding vows.
Psst. Not everyone needs to hear some of those romantic memories or cute nicknames you have for each other.
Reason #2: You Already Wrote Your Vows But Need an Editor’s Eyes
If you’ve already written your wedding vows, you don’t need someone to custom write them. Instead, work with a vow coach to edit your vows.
When I edit my client’s vows, I typically focus on the following areas:
Tone
Structure
Flow
More specifically, I work with clients to ensure that their vows do not sound generic. We want their vows to speak to the specifics of their love story and their personality.
I also love to hone in on the promises section since this is the most important part of wedding vows.
Reason #3: You Need Help with Public Speaking
Does the idea of reciting your vows publicly make you even more nervous than writing them?
As a vow coach, I also guide my clients through reading their vows.
After finalizing custom written vows that you feel confident about, I provide a video of me discussing my public speaking tips for couples.
If you need a more one-on-one approach, I also offer consultative public speaking workshops. During these Zoom calls, you’ll recite the vows we wrote together and I’ll provide real-time feedback on things like body language, tone, inflection, and pace.
When it comes to memorable vows, it may start with what you write but it’s the delivery that really makes the biggest impact.
Reason #4: You Need an Accountability Partner
One of the common reasons people hire coaches is to have someone they can be accountable to. This helps them to achieve their goal.
With a fitness coach, you’re accountable for showing up to training sessions.
With a financial coach, you’re accountable for saving and spending goals.
And with a vow coach, you’re accountable for getting your vows written.
Reason #5: You Aren’t a Writer
A vow coach can do a lot more than simply guide you through the vow writing process.
As a vow coach, I specialize in writing custom vows for my clients.
We meet over a video Zoom call where I learn the details of your love story. Next, I write personalized wedding vows. You review the initial draft and provide me with feedback until you’re 100% happy with your vows.
No writing on your part but your vows will represent your feelings and your voice.
Reason #6: They’re an Expert in their Field
Just like within any industry, the word “coach” can be tossed around and suddenly it seems like everyone is an expert. But before you consider working with a vow coach, dig into their bio.
Know what makes them qualified as a writer.
With a B.A. in Journalism, I have found that my education has not only taught me essential writing skills but interview skills as well. Many times the heart of what will make your vows is discovered through the interview process that we share before I even begin writing.
What have past clients said about them? Check out review sites like The Knot and Wedding Wire.
What sort of content are they providing on their blog and Instagram?
Where have they been featured? You should be able to view articles about them. Here are examples of places I’ve been featured.
Reason #7: You Want Truly Amazing Wedding Vows
What you say to your new spouse on your wedding day is what will cement your step into marriage. Those words will lay the foundation for your future. Talk about pressure, right?
If you want to recite wedding vows that capture how you feel and honor your love story, consider the help of a vow coach.
A vow coach is especially vital for anyone who wants to write funny wedding vows. There’s a fine line between playful and cringe-worthy.
Reason #8: Save Time
How long might it take you to write and edit your own wedding vows? Of course, that’s after you put off procrastinating vow writing and actually begin.
Working with a vow coach is a time saver.
Clients rave to me about how easy and stress-free the process was compared to the anxiety they had felt prior to working together.
Get in contact now to see how we can best work together to write vows you’ll adore.